When the Angel Gabriel announced to Mary that she would conceive the Son of God, this divine mystery immediately created a profound human dilemma for the young woman and her betrothed, Joseph. Scripture tells us that Mary was found to be with child before they came together, an event that, in the eyes of their society, placed Mary in a precarious and potentially dangerous position. St. Joseph, "being a just man and unwilling to expose her to public disgrace," decided to divorce her quietly. This single, silent act is perhaps the most eloquent testament to his profound love, respect, and piety. Before the angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, Joseph’s decision was not one of accusation or suspicion, but one of self-sacrificial protection. He was willing to bear the personal pain of a broken engagement to ensure that Mary's reputation, and her very life, was safeguarded from the harsh judgment of the law and the community. Joseph's subsequent obedience to the a...
James 1:19 tells us that we should "be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger..." These are the thoughts God places on my heart.