The Trap Of Destructive Anger
The Gospel of Matthew presents us with one of the most challenging "interior" demands of the Sermon on the Mount: the movement from the letter of the law to the spirit of the heart. While most of us can comfortably say we have never committed the physical act of murder, Christ's words in Matthew 5:21-22 strip away our self-righteousness. He warns that the roots of killing— anger , contempt, and the refusal to forgive—carry their own weight of judgment. In our daily lives, this "killing" often takes the form of "death by a thousand cuts" within our most sacred relationships. We "kill" our spouse’s spirit with a sarcastic retort; we "kill" a friend’s reputation through the casual fire of gossip; or we "kill" the dignity of a stranger by reducing them to a mere obstacle in our busy day. As the Catechism of the Catholic Church reminds us, "If anger reaches the point of a deliberate desire to kill or seriously wound a neig...