Finding The "Presence" In The Pews

Back when I taught religious education, I had one non-negotiable rule: if you’re in class, be fully present. This meant more than just showing up; it meant engaging in the conversation or, at the very least, holding space for others with respect. Lately, I’ve wondered how our liturgy might be transformed if we applied that same conviction to the Mass. A "fully present" congregation creates a more beautiful, vibrant sacrifice, yet we often find ourselves drifting. In exploring this, I stumbled upon David Philippart’s clever "seven habits of highly effective Mass-goers," which mirrors the flow of the liturgy. From entering into the mystery to "singing for our supper," these habits remind us that the Mass is not a spectator sport. It is an active participation that requires us to shake off our silence—especially the men, who often leave the singing to the sopranos—and remember that our voices, however imperfect, are gifts meant to be given back to God in prayer.

Being fully present also means embracing our role as beggars. During the general intercessions, we aren't just reading a list; we are laying the needs of the world at God’s feet. However, Philippart reminds us that if we have the courage to ask, we must have the courage to act, preparing ourselves to be the very instruments God uses to answer those prayers. This transformation continues as we approach the Eucharist. If you’ve ever found yourself watching your fellow parishioners return from Communion, don't feel intrusive—feel connected. We are drawn to look into the faces of our brothers and sisters because we are witnessing the joy of their transformation in Christ. This Sunday, I challenge you to move beyond the pews and into the mystery. Let’s stop merely attending Mass and start being fully present to the miracle and the community unfolding around us.