Lord, teach me not to hold on to life too tightly. Teach me to take it as a gift. To enjoy it, to cherish it while I have it, but to let go gracefully and thankfully when the time comes. The gift is great, but the Giver is greater still. You are the Giver and in You is a life that never ends. Amen. Such a simple prayer but it helps to maintain our focus throughout our days on this earth. Our obsession for created things very often is the biggest obstacle to a more fulfilling relationship with God. How often do we cling to things that will certainly go away when we have died? It is the gift of everlasting life that is most important. It is the time we will spend in eternity with God that should drive our passions. God does not want us to be destitute, merely to realize the place that created things have in our lives. As we approach the Lenten season, it is a great time to focus on the Giver. I hope the prayer above brings you as much comfort as it has given me over the years.
I am just beginning to dive into the beautiful, ancient devotion to the Five Wounds of Jesus, and I wanted to share a bit of the journey with you. It can feel a little overwhelming at first to look at the Crucifix this closely, but I’ve found such a gentle guide in St. Bernard of Clairvaux . In his Jubilee Rhythm on the Passion, Bernard doesn't treat the wounds of Jesus as distant historical facts or sights to be avoided. Instead, he approaches them with the tenderness of a friend, speaking directly to the feet, hands, side, and face of our Lord. For someone like me who is just starting out, his rhythm teaches that prayer isn't just about reciting words; it’s a holy hide-and-seek. Bernard invites us to literally hide ourselves within these wounds, seeing them as clefts in the rock where we can find shelter when our own lives feel turbulent or heavy. As I start this process, I’ve been practicing what I call gazing and greeting. Following Bernard’s lead, I look at the Crucifix an...