As we prepare to celebrate Thanksgiving next week, it is a good time to think about those who may not be anticipating the holiday at all. Now is the time to remember friends and family who may have recently lost someone. Think about those who may be experiencing Thanksgiving for the first time without a special loved one. The holiday season is typically stressful because of the expectations we place on these gatherings. Very often people think that having a meal will settle long-held anger or unresolved differences. Often it is quiet the opposite that occurs. Our emotions are heightened and this can lead to misunderstandings. Frequently we will take things out of context because we are looking to be slighted. All of this potential conflict is piled on top of the sadness and loneliness that someone who has lost a loved one during the year is feeling. God calls us to serve those in need. This is a perfect time for all of us to renew our commitment to serving others. Think about your neighbor who may be alone for the first time. Think about a husband who has lost his wife after a long marriage. Where will he go for Thanksgiving? Is there a wife who has lost her husband and may not have family close by? She will probably feel inadequate and useless. Jesus welcomes all to the table. There is always room in the house of the Lord. Invite someone to your Thanksgiving celebration that may be searching for companionship. Just a small caveat though. Frequently when we experience the loss of a loved one, celebrations of this type may be overwhelming. If they do agree to join your celebration, make sure you stay tuned to their mood. If you see changes and shifts, respond to them with love and care. Make sure to include their lost one in your Thanksgiving prayer. You will be called upon to be much more effortful than you might have been in the past but it will be worth it in the end. Allowing yourself to serve as God's earthen vessel, especially during the holiday season, is a perfect way to grow spiritually.